Living The Good Life: 4 Evidence-Based Tips To Attract Good Fortune

How To Make Your Own Luck - From Psychologist Richard Wiseman

12/9/20232 min read

I have a good friend who is just smashing life.

Everything he seems to touch turns to gold. Even when things at first seem to take a turn for the worse, he always somehow comes out of it better for wear. As much as I love him, I would be lying if I said there wasn’t an element of envy, but that eventually transformed into curiosity as I found myself asking, what is his secret? Or a better question: Why are some people lucky and others not? And is there something can I do about it?

Well It turns out there is.

Why do we want to be lucky?

Life is a whirlwind of limited interactions as we strive for our goals, seek love, and aim as best as possible to live without regrets. Luck, that invisible force, can positively influence our lives seemingly from nowhere, leaving us not only with the benefits but a sense of blessing. In this exploration of luck, we'll unravel the notion that being lucky isn't solely a matter of chance but rather a force we can actively influence. Join me as we discover the secrets behind luck and explore practical steps to enhance our own luck in this unpredictable journey called life. Don't underestimate the power of luck.

The Luck Factor by Richard Wiseman

Renowned psychologist Richard Wiseman, in his book "The Luck Factor," delves into what makes "lucky" people so fortunate and how we can actively contribute to our own luck.

4 Practical Steps to Increase Your Luck:
  1. Expand Your Network of Luck 📶
    Lucky people build and maintain a network of friends and contacts. This seemingly obvious yet often overlooked strategy involves being open to both giving and receiving opportunities. A personal connection often leads to a more meaningful and fruitful exchange compared to generalized requests on social media. The statistical increase in interactions raises the likelihood of those transformative "chance encounters."

  2. Set Ambitious and Lucky Goals 🎯
    Wiseman suggests that lucky people believe in the continuity of their good luck. Setting lofty goals, even those seemingly unlikely, can subconsciously influence behavior and open doors to unexpected opportunities. This aligns your actions with your goals, making it easier to move towards them with minimal effort or stumble upon the right person to aid your journey.

  3. Follow Your Hunch 💡
    You don't need all the information to make a decision. Saying yes more often to opportunities that sound fun or useful can lead to unexpected paths. Embrace the uncertainty of encounters, as more interactions increase the likelihood of those serendipitous "chance encounters."

  4. Develop a Growth Mindset 📈
    Bad things happen to everyone, including lucky individuals. The key is to view setbacks as opportunities for growth. Instead of dwelling on the negative, see the positive side of a situation and use it as a chance for personal development. This not only fosters psychological well-being but also minimizes the time it takes to bounce back after a setback.

As we navigate the unpredictable journey of life, let's recognize that luck is more than mere chance—it's a force we can actively shape. By expanding our networks, setting ambitious goals, following our instincts, and maintaining a growth mindset, we can cultivate a life filled with the serendipity we often attribute to luck. Embrace the art of cultivating luck, and let the journey unfold with newfound fortune.

Comment below if you have any lucky tips from personal experience